Sales Lesssons I’ve Learned from my Kids
Sunday, May 13th, 2012We all have heard or read about how little people remember after we have made a sales pitch or approach presentation.
So as a sales trainer and speaker, I’m always looking for ways to make my message clearer and memorable. I have worked on “honing the message,” developing a “compelling unique advantage” and, of course, an electrifying elevator pitch.
But here’s what we’re fighting: today’s customers are cluttered with information, schedules, meetings, emails and more work than a person can handle. There are more decision-making process involves more people than before, many of whom know little about the importance of our product or service.
Things my kids asked me
I have two boys, 11 and 8 and due to my continuous travel, recently they asked me some very simple yet important questions:
- Daddy, what do you do?
- Why do people hire you?
- Do you have to go? Why don’t they hire somebody else or do it themselves?
One of the great things about kids (just like many customers these days), they lack context. Any answer that we provide has to be in a simple language that they can understand.
What does a controller or accountant or marketing manager know about what our product or service? The challenge is this: Can we answer these questions that my boys asked me in a language that will get you more business?
Hint: There are right and wrong answers for both.
Daddy, What do you do?
- Right answer: ”I help companies to grow really fast by teaching their salespeople how to become more proactive and better at selling, so they can make more money and make sure their families are taken care of.”
- Wrong answer: ”Our Company teaches salespeople how to improve their sales.”
Why do people decide to hire you?
- Right answer: “I have helped lots of companies do this before, so other companies want the same results for their salespeople.”
- Wrong answer: ”We have a proven process for implementation that allows organizations to grow their business and reach their goals.”
Why do you have to go? Why can’t they do it themselves?
- Right answer: “Just like when you were learning karate, I could teach a little, but I don’t know as much as your sensei, and teaching you myself would take a long time and you would not know as much as you do right now. Daddy is a really good teacher of how to make more sales, and people want to learn how to do this as fast as they can.”
- Wrong answer: “We are the leading company in this field with over $5 million in business that our clients have closed using this system. Usually our clients have tried a number of things on their own before we work together and have wanted outside help to get better results.”
Both answers are accurate, but that doesn’t make them right, plus let’s face it, most customers have heard the same pitch more than once. In today’s business world it is our job to get our message across as clear as possible for all of our customers to understand, we may have to twick them a little but don’t get caught up in the “over sophisticated” answer.








